Visitor: “Wow, ‘Bucky’ isn’t a very butch name!”
My brain: [buzzing with confusion and making rapid-fire suggestions about what this woman might consider the ultimate butch name]
My brain: [‘Alex? Jo? Chris? Leslie? Charlie? TJ? Carol? Jordan? Deb? Pat? Idgie? Sue? Skye? Jess—oh. Ooh. Duhhh.’]
As a nb butch lesbian who’s preferred name is Alex, I feel called out.
I just googled “most butch names” and
